"What if She Has a Boyfriend"

Most guys are afraid that a girl has a boyfriend. So they do not ask her out. This is actually the stupidest reason not to approach a woman. Who cares if she has a boyfriend? We sure do not. And you should not either.

Most girls play the boyfriend card just to test you. They will say things like "I already have a boyfriend, I am sorry." and "I am in a relationship right now." to try to scare you off. Do not fall for it.

If she says she has a boyfriend, respond with a funny comment like "Great! He can join us too!" or "I did not ask your boyfriend out, I asked you out." Make sure you do not say anything negative about her boyfriend though. When women hear negative things, they attach a face to the negativity.

You have to act like an alpha-male when she brings up the boyfriend story. Do not look or sound intimidated by it. And do not put emotion into either. Some guys say that they feel bad breaking up a relationship. But if the relationship already sucks, you are actually helping the girl out.

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