"How to Approach a Woman"

Approaching a woman is no easy task. You get nervous, are at a loss of words and all sorts of crazy emotions go on in your mind.

When you see a woman you are interested in, do not spend much time worrying about what she thinks of you. Just go talk to her! Make it short and quick. Walk up to her, use an ice-breaker to start conversation (our ebooks collection shows you many examples of ice breakers), get her number, and leave. Do not stick around looking like an idiot and make the conversation longer then it needs to be.

Sometimes, women have their "bitch shields" up and they make it very hard to approach them to talk. In situations like this, act cocky and act like you are her prize. A good way to break through a bitch shield is by making fun of the woman in some way. If she is wearing red lipstick with a yellow dress, tell her she looks like a circus clown. If she is wearing big earrings, tell her midgets could jump through those earrings. You get the idea. Just make sure not to cross the line. For example, do not call an overweight woman fat. But you can call a hot sexy woman with a slender body fat.


Eye contact is a very good thing! If she looks right into your eyes, you build an instant connection. Try to keep eye contact as long as you can. Let her take it off first. If she keeps looking at you, then their is instant chemistry.

Here are some basics of approaching:

!. Before you approach, prepare yourself. Know what you want to say!

2. When you make the approach, act confident. Do not look like you are afraid of talking to the woman.

3. If you just want her number, make it short and quick.

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